The first time I remember them collapsing was in tenth grade.
I had worked hard to try out for the All Region Band. This was in the
Dallas / Ft. Worth region which was suppose to be one of the hardest.
The judges were to select the best musicians of the 10th, 11th, and
12th grades. I was only in the 10th grade.
The competition involved playing several pieces: I don't remember how
many. I was in percussion. Aside from snare drum there were "keys"
such as marimba and xylophone but timpani was separated out.
The keys is an interesting connection. My mother got me into band in
the first place because she didn't want me in gym class. With my
trach, I can't blow hard enough for any musical instrument and our
band at that time was just wind and percussion -- no strings. We had
met with the principal when I was going to enter 7th grade and she had
pointed out that with my piano background, I could play things like
chimes. I'm not really sure why we had the meeting but in any case, I
was signed up for band. Band members were not forced to take gym
which was my mother's main goal.
While she did go to all of the concerts, she didn't actually support
me in percussion. I eventually bought my own snare drum from money I
earned from my paper routes as well as paid for private lessons. The
other oddity is she never actually wanted me to take piano. Her dream
was for me to learn to play the organ. What I never understood is she
had talked herself into the idea that learning piano first would be a
stepping stone to organ. And I remember on a few occasions she made
fun of the fact I was in percussion.
In the 7th grade, I went to band and I practiced but only marginally
cared. Another regular competition for band members was a yearly solo
contest. The participants are not ranked 1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc but given
quality evaluations: 1st division, 2nd division, and 3rd division from
highest performance quality to lowest. And there were also degrees of
solos with 1 being the hardest and 3 being the easiest. I know I got
a 2nd division and I believe the solo was ranked 3 in hardness. My
classmate got a 1 on his equally ranked solo.
In 8th grade, I slipped to a 3rd division on probably a solo ranked as
a 2 in hardness. As I said, I didn't really try hard. Perhaps I was
upset with getting a 3 but I honestly can't recall why but I got a
spark to be better.
In 9th grade I got a 1st division and, again, I don't recall if the
solo was ranked 1 or 2 in hardness but I am pretty sure in 10th grade
I got a 1st division on a solo ranked 1 in hardness.
Back to the All Region Band contest, I ended up getting the last chair
in the All Region Band. There were actually two bands, the first and
second. The judges were suppose to pick five percussionists for each
band but they ended up adding a 6th, me, into the second band. Thus I
had placed 11th out of the entire Dallas / Ft. Worth region while in
the 10th grade without any support from my family, paying for my own
equipment and lessons. A fairly dramatic turn around from the low
point in 8th grade.
You may not believe this but I was immediately immensely depressed
when I heard the news that I had been selected. Now what do I do? It
seemed clear that I was able to achieve anything I wanted to if I put
my mind to it. But I could never think of anything that I felt was
really worth doing. I ended up quitting band that year.
Nothing mattered.